Last weekend I was home again.. These time I often spending my weekend at home according to my father's plan to join another acceleration of Police academic.. We are still waiting the result whether he success on passing the test or not..
I was quite happy because recently my family able to be a happy family.. At least we are able to understand each other, receive the strengths and weaknesses of each person and support each other. So recently we are trying to give support to my father to keep his spirit ON!
Until last night I feel a bit unhappy with what my parents did to my youngest brother, there was a little fight between my father and my youngest brother. I know he was really hurt by everything that my father have said to him.. I do understand his feeling last night even when I am with my other brother try to cheer him up and relieving his heart,I think it's just not enough to make him back to 'normal' again as our lovely monkey kid.. :D My father break my brother's heart again and again..I do know how it feels because I was in the same situation like him when I was young..
So what we should do if we don't have perfect parents?
But I believe there is no perfect parents in this world.. Everyone is learning to be someone.. My heart often said that good parents have to do that or to do this just like I am the one who know how to handle my kids perfectly.. But I guess I won't understand everything about how to be a good parents until I am experiencing my self to be a mom for my kid someday in the future..Just try to understand them even when understanding is not enough, at least I'm trying to be a good daughter for them.. And at least there is still a chance for everyone in my family to learn more about living a life as the whole family..
Happiness always there for us and never move everywhere... Let's reach it and place it in our family! :)
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Being Positive
Just realized how bad what I've did to work mate today..
I think I need to be more aware with everything and should always remind my self to have positive mind and behavior..
When my work mate being so negative, I shouldn't going with his flow.. When I'm being negative back to him, it may caused hurt him.. I feel sorry for that..
No matter what happen, I should say everything in positive words..
I have read some resourceful articles about being positive.. It's not about how you hide your feeling when you found troubles with polite norms as the reason.. it's not about how you should express your feeling extremely when you feel disturbed by other's negative behavior.. It's a matter of how you communicate what you feeling nicely in positive words, you will feel relieve because you communicate your feeling with less caused of hurting each other and hope it can be an encouragement for each other to be a better person.
Well, will learn more to be able to do that! Good luck Titah!! :)
I think I need to be more aware with everything and should always remind my self to have positive mind and behavior..
When my work mate being so negative, I shouldn't going with his flow.. When I'm being negative back to him, it may caused hurt him.. I feel sorry for that..
No matter what happen, I should say everything in positive words..
I have read some resourceful articles about being positive.. It's not about how you hide your feeling when you found troubles with polite norms as the reason.. it's not about how you should express your feeling extremely when you feel disturbed by other's negative behavior.. It's a matter of how you communicate what you feeling nicely in positive words, you will feel relieve because you communicate your feeling with less caused of hurting each other and hope it can be an encouragement for each other to be a better person.
Well, will learn more to be able to do that! Good luck Titah!! :)
Monday, April 12, 2010
26th Birthday
Monday, April 12th, 2010 at 14:00
Today is my birthday as a 26th years old woman..
I feel special because many of my friends give their time to say their attention to me through Facebook, twitter, text messages, email, and etc...
So bless to live surrounding the people that care and loving me..
In my 26th years of life, I still have a lot of things to achieve..
I need to give more courage to my passion..
For my mom and my dad,
Aku minta maaf jika aku pernah mengecewakan hatimu
Aku meminta maaf atas setiap perih tetes air mata yang engkau keluarkan untukku
Maafkan aku jika kadang aku tidak bisa memenuhi keinginanmu
Aku hanya ingin menjadi diriku sendiri dan mengejar mimpi yang ingin kuraih
Jadi maafkan aku jika aku tak sempurna
Jauh di lubuk hatiku, aku menyayangi kalian dengan sepenuh hati
Aku menghargai setiap peluh pengorbanan yang kaucurahkan untukku..
Mungkin aku tak bisa membalas semua jasa yang telah engkau berikan untuk merawat aku hingga dewasa..
Tapi rasa terima kasih tak terhingga ini akan selalu ada..
Will always love you, Mom and Dad! :)
Monday, April 5, 2010
The History of "Indonesia" name
One of my neighbors is a nurse. And now she is continuing her study for being professional nurse. One time she asked me to help her to write her task about our country history and culture. After that I got inspiration to write my own about Indonesia, my country where I’m living now and spend almost my entire life in this land. And I wish this will give me more inspiration to give more positive impacts to my beloved country and I can introduce more about Indonesia to others.
As we know, Indonesia is the biggest Island Country in the world that located in South East Asia, between Asia and Australia Lands and between Pacific Ocean and India Ocean. Because of Indonesia located between two Lands and two Oceans, so it’s called “Nusantara” (Kepulauan Antara or Islands in between).
And this time I want to write more about the history of Indonesia name, about where it came from and who gave Indonesia as our country name. After reading my father’s collection books and some resources from internet, finally, I found some interesting knowledge about where “Indonesia” came from.
In 1850, people from England named Earl called the citizens of “Indian Archipelago or Malayan Archipelago” with “INDU-NESIONS or Malayanesions”. In the same year, other people from England named Logan changed Indian Archipelago or Indunesions became INDONESIA to make it more applicable with Polinesia, Melanesia, and Micronesia language. For our information, Indonesian ancient came from Yunan, Vietnam. And they moved from Yunan to the south to Malayan Archipelago then finally arrived in Indonesian Islands. Indonesian people have the same basic characteristics and have almost same culture with Polinesian, Melanesian, and Micronesian people and gathered as Austronesian (Oceania) race.
Years later “Indonesia” word can be found in a book with the title “Indonesien” that published in 1884 by Germany people named Bastian.
In The Netherlands Kingdom Era of Indonesia, in a legal way Indonesia called as “Nederlands Oost Indie” (Hindia Belanda). And there were another nick names for Indonesia like “De Oost Indische Archipel” (Kepulauan Hindia Timur/ East India Islands), “Insulinde” (name that given by Multatuli), and “Nusantara” (Kepulauan Antara or Islands in between).
And when we started to have national movements to fighting for our independence day, our people starting to love “Indonesia” as a name for our beloved country and this name was introduced by young people at that time. Then as we know, “Indonesia” word first stated here in October 28th, 1928 in “Youth Promises” (“Sumpah Pemuda”..hehehe..). In Youth Promises we stated that we are one united in one nation: Indonesia and we are one united in one language: Bahasa Indonesia. And today we celebrate “Youth Promises” Day.. So, Happy Youth Promises’ Day, my beloved Indonesia!!!
Ok, that is about the history of where Indonesia name came from. Oh ya, based on Greek language, Indonesia came from 2 words that are “Indos” and “Nesos”. “Indos” means “India”. And “nesos” means “Islands”. So, Indonesia has a meaning: India Islands or Islands that located in India area.
That’s all what I know about the history of Indonesia name. I hope I've done it well.. hehehe.. It’s very interesting and useful for me and hope it will be useful for you too!
As we know, Indonesia is the biggest Island Country in the world that located in South East Asia, between Asia and Australia Lands and between Pacific Ocean and India Ocean. Because of Indonesia located between two Lands and two Oceans, so it’s called “Nusantara” (Kepulauan Antara or Islands in between).
And this time I want to write more about the history of Indonesia name, about where it came from and who gave Indonesia as our country name. After reading my father’s collection books and some resources from internet, finally, I found some interesting knowledge about where “Indonesia” came from.
In 1850, people from England named Earl called the citizens of “Indian Archipelago or Malayan Archipelago” with “INDU-NESIONS or Malayanesions”. In the same year, other people from England named Logan changed Indian Archipelago or Indunesions became INDONESIA to make it more applicable with Polinesia, Melanesia, and Micronesia language. For our information, Indonesian ancient came from Yunan, Vietnam. And they moved from Yunan to the south to Malayan Archipelago then finally arrived in Indonesian Islands. Indonesian people have the same basic characteristics and have almost same culture with Polinesian, Melanesian, and Micronesian people and gathered as Austronesian (Oceania) race.
Years later “Indonesia” word can be found in a book with the title “Indonesien” that published in 1884 by Germany people named Bastian.
In The Netherlands Kingdom Era of Indonesia, in a legal way Indonesia called as “Nederlands Oost Indie” (Hindia Belanda). And there were another nick names for Indonesia like “De Oost Indische Archipel” (Kepulauan Hindia Timur/ East India Islands), “Insulinde” (name that given by Multatuli), and “Nusantara” (Kepulauan Antara or Islands in between).
And when we started to have national movements to fighting for our independence day, our people starting to love “Indonesia” as a name for our beloved country and this name was introduced by young people at that time. Then as we know, “Indonesia” word first stated here in October 28th, 1928 in “Youth Promises” (“Sumpah Pemuda”..hehehe..). In Youth Promises we stated that we are one united in one nation: Indonesia and we are one united in one language: Bahasa Indonesia. And today we celebrate “Youth Promises” Day.. So, Happy Youth Promises’ Day, my beloved Indonesia!!!
Ok, that is about the history of where Indonesia name came from. Oh ya, based on Greek language, Indonesia came from 2 words that are “Indos” and “Nesos”. “Indos” means “India”. And “nesos” means “Islands”. So, Indonesia has a meaning: India Islands or Islands that located in India area.
That’s all what I know about the history of Indonesia name. I hope I've done it well.. hehehe.. It’s very interesting and useful for me and hope it will be useful for you too!
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