Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Is there any perfect parents in this world?

Last weekend I was home again.. These time I often spending my weekend at home according to my father's plan to join another acceleration of Police academic.. We are still waiting the result whether he success on passing the test or not..

I was quite happy because recently my family able to be a happy family.. At least we are able to understand each other, receive the strengths and weaknesses of each person and support each other. So recently we are trying to give support to my father to keep his spirit ON!

Until last night I feel a bit unhappy with what my parents did to my youngest brother, there was a little fight between my father and my youngest brother. I know he was really hurt by everything that my father have said to him.. I do understand his feeling last night even when I am with my other brother try to cheer him up and relieving his heart,I think it's just not enough to make him back to 'normal' again as our lovely monkey kid.. :D My father break my brother's heart again and again..I do know how it feels because I was in the same situation like him when I was young..

So what we should do if we don't have perfect parents?

But I believe there is no perfect parents in this world.. Everyone is learning to be someone.. My heart often said that good parents have to do that or to do this just like I am the one who know how to handle my kids perfectly.. But I guess I won't understand everything about how to be a good parents until I am experiencing my self to be a mom for my kid someday in the future..Just try to understand them even when understanding is not enough, at least I'm trying to be a good daughter for them.. And at least there is still a chance for everyone in my family to learn more about living a life as the whole family..

Happiness always there for us and never move everywhere... Let's reach it and place it in our family! :)

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